When they no longer appreciate your presence and write you off their lives, take a step back and leave them alone.
I must have missed the lesson where they tell you that ‘friendship’ sometimes means ‘abandonment’
"When all by myself, I can think of all kinds of clever remarks, quick comebacks to what no one said, and flashes of witty sociability with nobody. But all of this vanishes when I face someone in the flesh: I lose my intelligence, I can no longer speak, and after half an hour I just feel tired. Talking to people makes me feel like sleeping."
نعيب زماننا و العيب فينا
و ما لزماننا عيب سوانا
و نهجو ذا الزمان بغير ذنب
و لو نطق الزمان لنا هجانا
We blame our time though we are to blame.
No fault has time but only us.
We scold the time for all the shame.
Had it a tongue, it would scold us.
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And I was so scared I could not see the light, I didn’t want to be alone. But you just stand there watch them hold me down, I need to know that you’re around.